I Had To Hit You With The Truth...

You know... I felt like writing... something. I considered poetry, but I didn't feel like doing the rhyme scheme. I thought about a topic, and was still undecided. A friend of mine gave me inspiration. It's something that's been bothering me for a while, and I feel I must address it. Either I have issues with relationships, or I'm sick & tired of complaints of loneliness and there being no good men/women out here anymore. When I know I can count many of my friends and associates that are GOOD, FAITHFUL, RESPECTFUL, and the majority of them SAVED, CHRISTIAN GOD-FEARING men & women. And they're the one's complaining, because now they're scared to open their hearts because they've been broken so many times, used and taken advantage of by people that swore they loved them, but only got what they wanted, or once they found out they couldn't get what they wanted, they left them alone. Personally, I've loved... And I loved hard, and lost that person I loved. Yet I've always been offended when my friends/associates end up getting hurt by knuckleheads, tramps, skeezers, sluts... Call em' what ya wanna. When this happens, we tend to guard ourselves, to shield our hearts. To keep our love, even saying, "I love you," to ourselves. Being cautious is different from being cold. My female friends... Do us both a favor... STOP LOOKING for these men to take care of you, or to be your husband. you are NOT supposed to be looking for a husband. "WHOSO FINDETH A WIFE FINDETH A GOOD THING, AND OBTAINETH FAVOUR OF THE LORD." Proverbs 18:22 (KJV) Guess what...? That husband is supposed to find you. And don't get me wrong, we get lonely sometimes, and we don't feel like waiting. We tend to let our flesh take over, and get horny. But that too can be overcome. The enemy is waiting on you to get weak, thats when he's coming in the form of this amazingly attractive individual, with the nice smile, a good job, nice place, nice car, etc. Next thing you know, the sex is good, and you're head over hills in love but end up crying by yourself a few weeks, or months or so later. You return to bitterness, but you brought it on yourself, out of impatience. When you're saved, you're given a spirit of discernment, you already know what/who ain't for you. They don't line up with His will. Yet God still sends the RIGHT person, with the RIGHT Spirit to you, and you don't want them, because you've been scarred and hurt so much. You turn away the blessing that was meant for you. And eventhough He intended for you to have it. He ain't gonna give it to you like YOU want it. He'll give it to you like HE WANTS you to have it, to open your eyes and to show you that you need to humble yourself a little more, sometimes a lot more. Now He ain't gon' give you nobody He know you can't look at... Let's be real. Lol...  But He will ALWAYS give you what you NEED to COMPLETE you, AND COMPLIMENT your spirit. Men... ya'll do the same thing. You CAN NOT fall in love with a stripper. Get real. Some of ya'll gonna feel guilty after reading this, and that's what I expect... That's the purpose, the truth hurts sometimes. But you need to know it. I don't like seeing my people get played, nor playing themselves... I love you all. Be blessed.