Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Living the New Life
"If it seems we are crazy, it is to bring glory to God. And if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit. Either way, Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was raised for them. So we have stopped evaluating others from a human point of view. At one time we thought of Christ merely from a human point of view. How differently we know him now! This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!" - 2 Corinthians 5:13-17 (NLT)
We're leaving an entire year behind us. Along with it, let us leave it's worries, cares, troubles, and EVERY person, place, thing or idea that's held us back, dragged us down, EVERY issue, yoke and bondage that's had us constrained, and submit EVERY thing to Christ. Time is long overdue that we LET GO of the past, and EMBRACE the NEW in Christ... Should you not be saved, this is yet another opportunity to start a fresh and new life in Christ. Christianity is not a religion. It's a relationship with God, through Christ. As we draw nearer to Him, He draws nearer to us. If you believe in your heart the Lord Jesus Christ, and confess with your mouth that God has raised Him from the dead, you WILL be saved. It's a daily growing process. Let God have His way... EMBRACE the NEW.
Saturday, December 28, 2013
A Way That Seems Right...
We pray. We ask... And the moment we think we've received, often becomes the moment we've been deceived, most commonly by our thoughts, our plans, wants and desires, unknowingly spoken in the face/ears of the enemy. Nevertheless, when we completely surrender to God, only trusting in the Him, being led guided, reassured by His Spirit, combined with the senses He gave us to fully search the things of the natural. We then avoid much wasted time, disappointment, heartache and pain. In this particular case, should Samuel had chosen any other of Jesse's sons of his own volition, (by what He saw with his eyes,) the giant Goliath wouldn't have been defeated, and the Philistines would have claimed a victory, redirecting & delaying God's purpose, plan and will. However, he remained stern, steadfast and strong in the spirit until he came upon the least likely to defeat a giant, (by man's opinion/vision,) in David, one whom praised God all the day long, tended sheep in the fields, writing psalms/songs of praise to the Lord in whom He trusted in ALL things, a man after God's own heart... Thankfully, delays are not denials. For as we make decisions that are vital to the course of our lives daily, we must apply not only our common senses, not ignoring the unseen character, and warnings to those decisions, but also hearken unto, listen intently, and by the spirit of God, look upon the heart of those we deal/interact with in our business and personal relationships. Then... We can live our lives peacefully, joyfully, and abounding in the increase, blessings and favor of God.
Take heed... “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out. But I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. I get to the heart of the human. I get to the root of things. I treat them as they really are, not as they pretend to be.” - Jeremiah 17:9-10 (MSG)
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
Separation By Spirit...
Being Saved Doesn't Make Us Instantly Perfect: Growing Out of It... Share This With Those You Love.
Mark 8:38 - "Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels."
Luke 5:30-32 - "But their scribes and Pharisees murmured against his disciples, saying, Why do ye eat and drink with publicans and sinners? And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."
John 14:12-18 - "Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father. And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it. If ye love me, keep my commandments. And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you. I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you."
Romans 8:10-19 - "And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you. Therefore, brethren, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live after the flesh. For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God."
And on top of all that... Jesus said that once one has come to him, He'll always abide with you. He will never leave you, nor forsake you. He doesn't have come come back to you, because He never left, you turned away from Him, but He's still there waiting on your return. There's only sin that WILL NOT be forgiven, and that's blasphemy (blatant denial) of the Holy Spirit. As scuffed up, and scarred up and as dirty as you have been, and for a while WILL continue to be, He's still there waiting. You can join us in heaven, or fight us from hell. It's your choice... God will always love you, and I love you anyway.
And this is from Him, through me. One that has prayed for His protection while I was in the midst of committing sins. If anyone can, I can tell you what the Lord can do. And I've still got a long way to grow.
"And when he had called the people unto him with his disciples also, he said unto them, Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me." - Mark 8:34
Friday, December 20, 2013
Still Standing...
Saturday, December 14, 2013
Merry Christ Mas: Clarity
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
The Birth of Our Saviour: My Christmas Story...
Friday, November 29, 2013
SEX, LOVE and LUST
Let's not be coy, choosing various subjects to be too "taboo" to be addressed, by Christians, ministers, pastors, etc. After all, God told Adam and Eve to, "be fruitful and multiply," to subdue the earth, having dominion over it. Today, so much television, music, movies, videos, and so-called "romance novels," are geared toward appealing to our sexual appetites it's ridiculous. It provokes and promotes lust, which leads to the conception of sin, which in turn leads to death. Of course sexual intimacy feels good and pleases the body, especially when both parties know what they're doing and how to do it right. But since the beginning, sex been established to be shared ONLY between a husband and wife, a male and female husband and wife, for there is no other way that same-sex individuals can multiply. Nevertheless, I'll make this clear... We should respect ourselves, one another, and most importantly God, enough to abide in His way, and wait until we're wed one to another before we lie together. Sex is also an expression of love, yet there's a decency and order, (marriage,) that should be installed first. It shouldn't be, "If you love me, then do....... for me." But rather, "Since I love God, and since I love you, "I'll wait until we're married, and fight my flesh until then."... That's what Real Love is, KEEPING GOD FIRST. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." - Heb. 13:4
WALK IN LOVE - "Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them." - Ephesians 5:1-7
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Too Much Love...
I thought, "Perhaps, I really don't know what love is... Perhaps my exes were right..."
Maybe I was wrong to give my all, as best I could do, to be open, honest, trusting and giving...
Perhaps giving my last, when I was in need, sacrificing, neglecting mine own personal needs...
At times not that much, though more than affordable, twas a mistake maybe I shouldn't have cared...
But I Loved, and still Love with the Love of the Lord, from my heart and it's pure just as His...
It is written, "No greater love hath a man than this, that he would lay down his life for a friend." As for me, I retained agape Love for each one, and that meant I'd give mine for them.
Yet I remained faithful, I wrote wedding plans, and I purchased rings to wed two out of three... Yet on two of their parts, they felt they should stray, yet the one who forgave them was me.
Their alleged "love" was attached to the tangible things and the sex, the last admitted that her's in fact was... At least five years of my life invested in each, my plan was simply to Love...
To be that provider, that husband and father, that God first formed man to be... Yes I made mistakes, yet my heart never changed, in the end I once cried, "Woe is me..."
Never again, for the next shall remain my wife until death us do part... She'll truly give, just as I will, one another God's Love from our hearts...
I thought, "I've got too much Love in me, not to be shared, for I indeed know what True Love is..."
Monday, November 18, 2013
Tired of Being Alone...
Sunday, November 17, 2013
A Little Study, A Little Wisdom: Why the Man Should Not Be Alone...
Saturday, November 9, 2013
When It Hurts To Love...
"As a woman with child is in pain and cries out in her pangs, when she draws near the time of her delivery, so have we been in Your sight, O Lord." - Isaiah 26:17 (NKJV)
LOVE... It's much more than a simple word, and much more than an action. It's the ultimate reason God chose to send His Son to earth, to bear the cross for the sins of, and to redeem His most precious creation... Man.
LOVE is the very foundation of Christianity... It is written, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes on Him should not perish,but shall have everlasting life." - John 3:16
LOVE is the greatest gift God could have ever given us, for by love, we may obtain everlasting life, we may be One with Him in Spirit, and live out all eternity with our Father in Heaven.
LOVE can also be the heaviest cross one carries, concerning our heartfelt feelings and emotions for one another... When this adverse effect of love takes place, it's in the midst of our compassion, positive hopes and desires for one another, that we often endure the most pain... We express a pure, unconditional, forgiving, agape love, that is often not recompensed, not embraced, and seldom returned by whom we express or render it to. We instead become the person who's watched, taken advantage of, mistrusted, and left with bearing a heart full of love that seems to lie dormant, unwittingly rejected by the objects of our affection... I ask that you be not dismayed... "
LOVE is a many splendored thing," as the saying goes. The Apostle Paul once penned that, "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." -1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NLT)
I urge that we continue to love... However, we must not continue to allow our hearts to be toyed with, neither place ourselves in unwanted, poor relationships for the sake of not being alone... God knows, and He cares. It hurts to let go of the one's we love... Yet after a while, because it also takes time, we realize that it's even more painful to hold onto hopelessness.
Consider Jesus... He knew no sin, did no wrong, He simply loved, yet He painfully endured rejection, lies, being spat upon, beaten, battered and bruised... because He loved us... SOMETIMES, IT HURTS TO LOVE.
"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." - Revelation 21:4 ... Love hurts. Just ask Jesus.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Indigo Blues
There's a midnight blue with a violet hue, a darkening comfort, that's majestically cool...
Whomever thought that the blues could have a positive view? An essence of royalty in the undertones it exudes...
A work of art in it's own right, created by the King, carefully composed, fit for a Queen...
A color of intuition, perception, and higher mind, a personality of compassion, serving to mankind...
A virtuous wife, for what man can find? The answer is simply before these eyes of mine...
It's said that a man knows his wife when he sees her. Upon the revelation, his aim is to please her...
She'll see what he sees, by God they shall know, they'll make their covenant as He has, in the clouds with the bow...
That he may Love her, honor her, that she be cherished and adored, that he may share with her the agape Love of the Lord...
There's no hint of disrespect, only peace and joy untold, a husband and helpmeet, to have and to hold...
I know you... So I welcome these Indigo Blues...
Monday, October 14, 2013
The Awakening
I awoke to behold natural beauty in a state of rest. Your eyes closed, you're asleep, taking sweet, simple breaths.
I envisioned this day, yet never imagined it would come. That you and I, would be us, we twain would be one.
All that I have is yours, within and without, for I trust you undoubtedly with holding my heart.
Not wanting to startle you, I draw nearer to hold you. My arm wrapped around you, I'm grateful that I've found you.
Of course you could model Victoria's Secret, yet you represent Virtuous Women, unashamed of God's gifts.
Your curves discourage the enemy's advances. Our prayers cover one another, we're taking no chances.
This love that we share is from Heaven above, we're equally yoked, were on one accord.
You're all that I've prayed for, and more than I've missed. It's time I awake you, embrace you with a kiss...
But wait... It was all a dream, for I woke up alone... This time. - Erron R. Johnson
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Lesson for Life: Let God Choose for You
"And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.... And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. And Adam said: “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed." - Genesis 2:18, 20-25
This one hits home for me... Not only had I heard from God, but I'd later been told by prophecy, that my ex would be my wife. However, in spite of our personal hopes, dreams & visions, and although God may give us a Word, concerning various things, it's HIGHLY possible, and VERY easy for us to walk out of His will, thus altering the path of our lives. In my case, a woman that I'd met at a church, once a very loving individual, over time became a church-going, hearer, yet not a doer of the Word, she refused to pray for us as a couple, became demeaning, degrading and hard-hearted toward me, lover of material things, disputer & rejector of the Word, literally stating, "I don't care what God say, I'mma do what I wanna do, and say what I wanna say." And that was AFTER He'd spake to my spirit, reaffirming & confirming multiple times that we were unequally yoked, and I was still trying to "make it work," knowing she "was" a better person. Til' this day, she remains an aspiring author, always advising on family & relationships, yet currently seeing a married man, smh... That's truly being a hypocrite. But because she changed, His plan & His will changed. In short, though our dreams/visions, and even God's may remain the same, the other party HAS TO BE willing, and obedient to Him. Although they may at heart, be believers in Christ, and know the Word, keep in mind that God is no respecter of persons, and that above all, He loves His children, and says, it is better that one hang a millstone around his neck, and be cast into the sea, than to hurt one of His little ones. In short, He doesn't want us with anyone that doesn't treat us right, and love us wholeheartedly... We must abandon our fleshly desires and seek His guidance, seek His peace, and seek His will. Ignore the outside, look inwardly, and listen to His voice. Let God make the choice for us, and follow His instructions.
Friday, October 11, 2013
"After you have suffered a little while, He will restore..."
"In the same way, you younger men must accept the authority of the elders. And all of you, serve each other in humility, for “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.” So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you are. In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, He will restore, support, and strengthen you, and He will place you on a firm foundation. All power to Him forever! Amen." - 1 Peter 5:8-11 (NLT)
Wednesday, October 9, 2013
Just Thinking...
"Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. And God has given us his Spirit as proof that we live in him and he in us. Furthermore, we have seen with our own eyes and now testify that the Father sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. All who confess that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God. We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. We love each other because he loved us first. If someone says, “I love God,” but hates a Christian brother or sister, that person is a liar; for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see? And he has given us this command: Those who love God must also love their Christian brothers and sisters." - 1 John 4:7-21 (NLT)
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
Just Like You...
To everyone who's ever been told, "You're just like (whomever)..." By the grace of God, I'm here to tell you that according to scripture, that's clearly not the case. YOU are more than a conqueror. YOU are a unique individual. YOU are fearfully and wonderfully made. YOU are the head, and NOT the tail. YOU are above and NOT beneath. YOU are the the salt of the earth. YOU are blessed and Highly favored. Truthfully... YOU are just like YOU.
Sunday, October 6, 2013
The Message or the Messenger... Which Do You Hear?
Amazingly, yet not surprisingly, it's something how some believers, Christians, "church people," become offended by, or biased against the written Word, the scripture. Let me be clear, I'm not referring to the the Pastor's sermon as a whole, his commentary, neither his points made in delivering his message, but simply to the scripture alone. I've noticed people get up and walk out church at any given time when certain scriptures are read. Namely those which refer to adultery, tithing/giving, the love of money, and nowadays especially sexual immorality/inordinate affection,, (homosexuality/lesbianism,) being an abomination unto God. Now it's one thing if the minister/speaker just outright condemns everybody to hell every week of his own volition, and quite another to preach the written Word, the Truth of the Gospel, the Good News of Salvation, that we've all sinned and come short of the glory of God, yet there is hope. That "The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way. THOUGH HE FALL, HE SHALL NOT BE UTTERLY CAST DOWN; For the Lord upholds him with His hand." That once we're saved and put on Christ, we're new creatures, that we're given a clean slate every day, "for the Lord's tender mercies are new every morning," That "there is no temptation that has overtaken you... that God has not already provided a way of escape." That there's forgiveness, there's mercy, there's grace, that "there is now therefore NO CONDEMNATION such as to THOSE WHO ARE IN CHRIST JESUS, WHO WALK NOT AFTER THE FLESH, BUT AFTER THE SPIRIT."... The God's honest truth, according to scripture, is that WE MUST RESIST the devil. WE MUST bring the flesh under subjection. WE CANNOT continue to dwell, live & daily wallow in blatant sin, clearly doing the opposite of what the Word says, and keep asking God to forgive us everyday. It's written that the people of Sodom & Gomorrah did MANY wicked things aside from same-sex relations & sex with animals, and for that cause God gave them over to a reprobate (sinful, Godless,) mind, and His Word hasn't changed. Just as Jesus Christ, whom is the Word of God, is the same today, yesterday, and forevermore." Is it that we love the things we do more than we love God, because that's what it seems to say to Him. It's like a person saying, "God, I don't care what your Word says, I ain't ready to live right, I ain't ready to submit to you. I don't want your love, peace, joy and abundant overflow of blessings for being obedient. So I'm gonna do what I wanna do, & I'll holla at You later. I love me more than I love You."... Now that my friends is pretty much a bullet train to hell, lest we repent & change our ways. The bottom line is that WE MUST CHANGE, and do our best to live & walk
"Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. On judgment day many will say to me, ‘Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.’ But I will reply, ‘I never knew you. Get away from me, you who break God’s laws.’" - Matt. 7:21-23 (NLT)... I pray we all make the Right choice.
Saturday, October 5, 2013
To My "Good Thing;" My Helpmeet...
I can't promise things will be perfect. neither can I promise you that each & every day, or every moment that we're together will be joyful, peaceful, and just as nice and quaint as if it were in a movie or soap opera. For in this world, life is unscripted, and in relationships, there are bound to eventually be arguments, (which I attempt to avoid,) and disagreements. Yet I'm aware it's impossible for us to agree on everything, for we're individuals, with varying points of view. Yet i can promise you that I'll never lay a hand on you in attempt to hurt or harm you.
I can't promise that won't look at another woman, thinking she may be attractive, because I'm a man, I'm not gay, and I have eyes. But I can promise you that I won't stare, for in my heart, mind and soul, you're my blessing from God, and that makes you the most beautiful woman in the world.
I can't promise that I can get everything you want, need & desire, at the time, or moment you want, need or desire it. Yet I'm willing to work hard to provide for the both us, and it's not only my duty, but my pleasure to place your needs before my own, and our child's/children's needs before both our own, including any and all children you possibly may have prior to us being together. I promise to bring them up in the way that they should go, in the fear, admonition and knowledge of the Lord.
I can promise you that like Jesus, I will never leave you nor forsake you. I'll always be that unbiased, listening ear, comforting arm and shoulder to cry on. I'm not a whorish, neither adulterous man, so I can promise you that I'll never cheat on you, and I won't find you unattractive if you gain a little, or a lot of weight, time brings about changes. I can promise you that I'll ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST in all of our relationships, family, marriage and otherwise. I promise that I'll always be truthful, open and honest with you, for communication is vital, although there are times that the truth may hurt deeply, I expect you to be that same way with me.
There's much more, for just as many articles, books, and magazines, and novels there are on love, relationships and romance, I could go on and on, but all I'm saying is that I promise to love you the way God intended me to love you, His Book being the most important of all... I promise to love you, more than my own body, just as Christ loves the church.
Friday, October 4, 2013
Pride & Humility
"In the same way, you younger men must accept the authority of the elders. And all of you, serve each other in humility, for “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.” So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you are. In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. All power to him forever! Amen." - 1 Peter 5:5-11 (NLT)
Monday, September 30, 2013
A Solid Foundation
First & foremost, the most important thing is our faith. Again, if one doesn't care for your soul, they're not your soulmate, and they definitely don't have a clue what love is... KEEPING God first promotes loving, helping, (NOT enabling, for that's being a crutch,) but uplifting, encouraging & supporting one another in all things positive, being open & honest, REMAINING faithful, speaking the truth in love, even if it may hurt, for it will always result in healing. Someone who truly loves you will give their last, and ultimately give their lives that you may live. "For greater love has no man than this, that he would lay down his life for his friends." Yet without God being the the solid foundation, on which our relationships are built, they're bound to fall... Hard.
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Women... REAL Men NEED Your Help: Come Out of Your Shell
"Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.... And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam; and while he slept, He took one of his ribs or a part of his side and closed up the [place with] flesh. And the rib or part of his side which the Lord God had taken from the man He built up and made into a woman, and He brought her to the man." - Genesis 2:18, 21-22 (AMP)
Allow me to speak on behalf of the believing, faith-filled, saved, God-fearing Christian men, the ONLY REAL men. We're the good men that many have been deemed hard to find. Perhaps we can't be found, because we're supposed to be led to you without your looking, for whoso finds a wife, finds a good thing... It's not a wonder many fall for the fools, the users and abusers whom take you for granted, those whom appeal to your appetites & senses, yet don't have the sense to realize you're sensual...
We're men... We're strong... We work. We love. We provide. We're the one's that are there with a listening ear, our shoulders for you to cry on, yet we also cry... We don't disclose much, for we feel as if what we have on our minds, what weighs heavy upon our hearts, is too much for you to bear. Therefore we attempt to understand your passions and your pains, in hopes to find ways to eliminate our troubling cares...
We see the strength in you... We know you're stronger than we are, for there's no way in hell our bodies could bear the discomfort of ovulation, enduring menstruation, every 28 days for 3-5 days at a time, becoming sublime in an attempt aiming to conceive, to be a blessing to us, carry and deliver our seed... It hurts us to know you bleed...
It's not a lie but the complete truth, that we were given the charge to be fruitful and multiply. To diligently dedicate ourselves to dominate in the dominion which Adam let fall before his eyes. We REAL men don't perceive Eve as the fall guy... For we studied to show ourselves approved, reading the scripture and realizing that Adam "was with her," when she was deceived, yet he remained silent, so we place the blame all on that fool...
Nevertheless, WE NEED YOU... The reason that God formed you is to be our helpmeet, to assist... To be that "rib," supporting and protecting our internal intricacies, as well as our extremities. To "help" us meet both our needs, fulfill our purposes and destinies, without questioning God's perplexities, directing us to abide in, trust and become complete in Him...
NOT so that either of us would revert to the errors and sins of Sodom and Gomorrah... Abandoning the ability to procreate or multiply as God intended, by becoming deceived as if Adam & Eve were in fact Adam & Steve, or Eve & Ellen... Rebelling living low & horribly, acquiring, adopting, accepting, voluntarily choosing to be perceived as the Word states, "an abomination unto God..." NO... It would be rather pleasing to both of us that we share with you the rod...... of correction...
Any discretion would be rendered indiscreet, truthfully on another plane, completely opposite from infidelity, lust and adultery... Though the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak, there's no need to sneak, creep, side-eyed peek trying to get a piece, when we can savagely wreak havoc not only between, but atop or without, we could scream and shout until we rip the sheets... For it is written, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled..." between a husband... And his helpmeet...
Women, come out of your shell... We're waiting for you.
Monday, September 23, 2013
Abuse: Playing the Victim
Abuse... Verbal, emotional, mental, physical, spiritual. No matter the type, there are varying, progressive degrees of abuse, for it only gets worse. When the abuser is no longer a part of our lives, sometimes it leaves very deep, and traumatic emotional scars. We not only live in fear that we'll be subjected to the same behavior in following relationships, but we might also exude the same abuse we experienced, on the person who's now chosen, and willing to love us the Right way.
In essence, we'll be often "playing the victim," all smiles, a seemingly healthy relationship, getting along in public bearing fake grins as big as Alive In Wonderland's Cheshire Cat, yet in the car, at home, behind closed doors, or rather when alone, we resort to degradation, demeaning & belittling the person we're with, because that's how we were "used to" being treated. Many times comparing the present person with the past assailant, using phrases such as, "You're just like..." When in all actuality, it's ourselves that have become "just like...." We carry the baggage, no... the luggage of our past relationships from one person to the next, proclaiming & reliving the things we went through, when we were actually being abused. So we "play the victim" in the public eye... Perhaps going so far as to intentionally starting arguments because we just "feel like" arguing, for the simplest reasons, becoming enraged to the point of physically attacking the person who's done us no wrong. Then, should they strike us in self-defense, should they not bow or lie down and take that mess, and fight back... Then we claim "we" were abused, or "We're" the victims... Yet sadly, somewhere along the way, we've lost the sight of what love really is. We may regularly attend church, yet have lost the closeness, the trust, the relationship, faith & belief of the power of God in our lives. And it's simply become an act of habit, a tradition, church becomes a routine, as we secede into a powerless cycle of religion.
We associate acts of kindness, and the material things that the ones whom truly loved us with all their hearts, possibly couldn't afford, yet still gave their last to us, with love. Meanwhile, the "love" we have becomes available for purchase, forsaking the fact that true love, the God-kind of agape love is priceless. So the "love" we think we have is truly lust, seeking the tangible, neglecting the precious, which is unseen by the eye, yet thrives in the heart, only using the next person for what they give to us, as many of them use us for what they can get from us.
Be aware...Greed, money, and sex are one hell of a dangerous combination to those that "could care less."... Honestly, the fact is that we're no longer victims, but have embodied the persona of the abuser, and sometimes defamed the character of a truly loving individual... Be careful, for pride not only comes before a fall, but what's hidden in darkness shall always be revealed by the Light. This Light, is the Light of the world, and His name is Jesus. Love Him.
Singles...
Singles... Though we may be believers, perhaps sharing the same hearts desire, share in our passions for the Gospel, be attracted to one another and much more, it still may not be in God's will that we in particular, become one flesh. Neither could it be in His timing... Oftentimes, our impatience takes precedence over God's clarity. Simply put, our faith is misplaced, guided by our thoughts & emotions, as opposed to being led by, and obediently following the voice and spirit of God. However, it is written, "Trust in the Lord with ALL your heart and lean NOT TO YOUR OWN understanding. In ALL your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."... I thank God for wisdom, understanding, the spirit of discernment, in addition to increasing and strengthening my patience, preparing and equipping me for His work, as I seek Him first in ALL things, awaiting Him, to fulfill the desires of my heart, in His timing, according to a His will. "My son get wisdom which is the principle thing. And with all your getting, get understanding."
Take heed... There's nothing profitable about being a wise fool.