Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Living the New Life

"Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven, where Christ sits in the place of honor at God’s right hand. Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth. For you died to this life, and your real life is hidden with Christ in God. And when Christ, who is your life, is revealed to the whole world, you will share in all his glory. So put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity, lust, and evil desires. Don’t be greedy, for a greedy person is an idolater, worshiping the things of this world. Because of these sins, the anger of God is coming. You used to do these things when your life was still part of this world. But now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language. Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds. Put on your new nature, and be renewed as you learn to know your Creator and become like him. In this new life, it doesn’t matter if you are a Jew or a Gentile, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbaric, uncivilized, slave, or free. Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us. Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father." - Colossians 3:1-17 (NLT)

"If it seems we are crazy, it is to bring glory to God. And if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit. Either way, Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was raised for them. So we have stopped evaluating others from a human point of view. At one time we thought of Christ merely from a human point of view. How differently we know him now! This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!" - 2 Corinthians 5:13-17 (NLT)

We're leaving an entire year behind us. Along with it, let us leave it's worries, cares, troubles, and EVERY person, place, thing or idea that's held us back, dragged us down, EVERY issue, yoke and bondage that's had us constrained, and submit EVERY thing to Christ. Time is long overdue that we LET GO of the past, and EMBRACE the NEW in Christ... Should you not be saved, this is yet another opportunity to start a fresh and new life in Christ. Christianity is not a religion. It's a relationship with God, through Christ. As we draw nearer to Him, He draws nearer to us. If you believe in your heart the Lord Jesus Christ, and confess with your mouth that God has raised Him from the dead, you WILL be saved. It's a daily growing process. Let God have His way... EMBRACE the NEW.


Saturday, December 28, 2013

A Way That Seems Right...

"When they arrived, Samuel took one look at Eliab and thought, “Here he is! God’s anointed!” But God told Samuel, “Looks aren’t everything. Don’t be impressed with his looks and stature. I’ve already eliminated him. God judges persons differently than humans do. Men and women look at the face; God looks into the heart.”....... Jesse presented his seven sons to Samuel. Samuel was blunt with Jesse, “God hasn’t chosen any of these.” Then he asked Jesse, “Is this it? Are there no more sons?” “Well, yes, there’s the runt. But he’s out tending the sheep.” Samuel ordered Jesse, “Go get him. We’re not moving from this spot until he’s here.” Jesse sent for him. He was brought in, the very picture of health—bright-eyed, good-looking. God said, “Up on your feet! Anoint him! This is the one.” - 1 Samuel 16:6-7, 10-12 (MSG)

We pray. We ask... And the moment we think we've received, often becomes the moment we've been deceived, most commonly by our thoughts, our plans, wants and desires, unknowingly spoken in the face/ears of the enemy. Nevertheless, when we completely surrender to God, only trusting in the Him, being led guided, reassured by His Spirit, combined with the senses He gave us to fully search the things of the natural. We then avoid much wasted time, disappointment, heartache and pain. In this particular case, should Samuel had chosen any other of Jesse's sons of his own volition, (by what He saw with his eyes,) the giant Goliath wouldn't have been defeated, and the Philistines would have claimed a victory, redirecting & delaying God's purpose, plan and will. However, he remained stern, steadfast and strong in the spirit until he came upon the least likely to defeat a giant, (by man's opinion/vision,) in David, one whom praised God all the day long, tended sheep in the fields, writing psalms/songs of praise to the Lord in whom He trusted in ALL things, a man after God's own heart... Thankfully, delays are not denials. For as we make decisions that are vital to the course of our lives daily, we must apply not only our common senses, not ignoring the unseen character, and warnings to those decisions, but also hearken unto, listen intently, and by the spirit of God, look upon the heart of those we deal/interact with in our business and personal relationships. Then... We can live our lives peacefully, joyfully, and abounding in the increase, blessings and favor of God.

Take heed... “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out. But I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. I get to the heart of the human. I get to the root of things. I treat them as they really are, not as they pretend to be.” - Jeremiah 17:9-10 (MSG)

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Separation By Spirit...

It's something how spiritual growth, speaking, living by, and standing on the Word of God, causes us to separate from many things, places, and some people... Ironically, some people choose to separate themselves, and if we're too hard-headed, stubborn, or headstrong to take heed to God's guidance, direction, and clearly, big & bold lettered, "THIS ISN'T WHAT I WANT FOR YOU, BECAUSE IT DOESN'T LINE UP WITH MY WORD, LOVE GOD" sign, then He'll remove the thing we're holding onto, already healed while we feel broken... It's not that the other party doesn't believe in God necessarily, though we find many don't, or they may not understand the concept of faith, believing in which they cannot touch or see, but some may not have the same zeal, or passion that we may possess... In essence, we don't have the same relationship with Him, unequally yoked, not on One accord, definitely on different pages, often different books. And some just don't wanna hear what the Word says, thinking every scripture is about them, their sin or their situation. It's not that at all... Every scripture may not apply/pertain to one's particular situation, but EVERY single  letter, word, scripture, passage, chapter, book, and the entire Bible applies/pertains to EACH and EVERY one of our lives. We have the choice of whether or not to accept, and apply it, to choose, peace or confusion, deliverance or disgust. Job is quoted as saying, "I have not departed from the commandment of His lips; I have treasured the words of His mouth More than my necessary food." - Job 23:12 (NKJV)... Now it's more than what's necessary, that would mean that it's vital... Likewise, "But Jesus told him, “No! The Scriptures say, ‘People do not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” - Matthew 4:4 (NLT)... We MUST grow in wisdom & knowledge of the Word of God, strengthening our relationship with Him, abiding by the gospel of Christ to our utmost as believers. We won't be perfect, but we'll grow into perfection... As for me, those who know me, know that as a person, I never changed... However in spirit... I transformed. (Rom. 12:1-2)



Being Saved Doesn't Make Us Instantly Perfect: Growing Out of It... Share This With Those You Love.

My thing is... I think people have a misconception about being saved. Being saved doesn't mean you live a perfect life. Perfection DOES NOT EXIST in this world, not on the earth at all. We are made perfect through grace. But that doesn't happen until we're transformed when Jesus returns. Don't forget that the bible also says, "We are ALL sinner's ... and have ALL come short of the glory of God." Need another one? How about, "There is NONE righteous, no not one." or, "We are not saved by works, but saved by grace." and most importantly, Jesus said, "I came NOT to call the righteous, but SINNERS to repentance." So don't be scared and think that you have to walk on eggshells to be a Christian. We ALL sin in one way or another, in some way, action, deed, or thought... daily. The thing is... when you know better, and you WILLFULLY sin, and you completely disregard God. Then you're in trouble. Your actions don't keep you saved either. Check this out...

Mark 8:38 - "Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels." 

Luke 5:30-32 - "But their scribes and Pharisees murmured against his disciples, saying, Why do ye eat and drink with publicans and sinners? And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."

John 14:12-18 - "Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father. And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it. If ye love me, keep my commandments. And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you. I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you."

Romans 8:10-19 - "And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you. Therefore, brethren, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live after the flesh. For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live. For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God."

And on top of all that... Jesus said that once one has come to him, He'll always abide with you. He will never leave you, nor forsake you. He doesn't have come come back to you, because He never left, you turned away from Him, but He's still there waiting on your return. There's only sin that WILL NOT be forgiven, and that's blasphemy (blatant denial) of the Holy Spirit. As scuffed up, and scarred up and as dirty as you have been, and for a while WILL continue to be, He's still there waiting. You can join us in heaven, or fight us from hell. It's your choice... God will always love you, and I love you anyway.

And this is from Him, through me. One that has prayed for His protection while I was in the midst of committing sins. If anyone can, I can tell you what the Lord can do. And I've still got a long way to grow.

"And when he had called the people unto him with his disciples also, he said unto them, Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me." - Mark 8:34



Friday, December 20, 2013

Still Standing...

"These things I command you, that you love one another." - John 15:17 (NKJV)

I am immovable, far from impressionable, yet predictable by abiding by what's scriptural... I am a child of the King, servant of the Most High, I retain the humility not to boast that I'm a minister.

You see, that's my assignment, my purpose as it were. To spread the uncompromised gospel to each and anyone. I remain to stand tall, the Truth I proclaim, no ulterior motives, only to love & bless everyone.

I've painfully grown teeth, and my soul has been conditioned to digesting the meat. It's washed down with the sincere milk of the Word, which is a solid foundation, building upon the wisdom and Kingdom knowledge I seek.

The Words that I speak, and the Truth I write, correspond to the life that I live. A passion for acting, yet only on stage, a pure heart in all, is all that I give. I practice what I preach, and at times challenging as it may be, I walk forth boldly, without fear.

I'm aware that the stone which was God's precious jewel, was the very same stone that the builders refused. Hated, despised of and rejected by men, His life was given, that ours would begin.

Imagine a friend that loves you so much, they'd lay down their life that you'd retain such. A must it is to them that you'd retain joy, unrest they endure, that peace may be yours.

"This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends." - John 15:12-13 (NKJV)... Not only is it this that is written, herein is no deception, the Word is what I'm living.

"The love of heaven makes one heavenly." - William Shakespeare

"You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." - Marcus Aurelius

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Merry Christ Mas: Clarity

It’s the holiday season, and being that our celebration of Thanksgiving is now over, we now approach the biggest shopping and gifting holiday of the year, Christmas. Those of whom celebrate it normally make purchases, (some elaborate,) for our close friends and family. Our children often get that major toy/game system they’ve always wanted, and many lovers, (true lovers,) take their relationships to the next level, transcending them into engagements. It’s usually quite a joyous and “merry” time for all, yet there are also occurrences which weigh heavy upon the hearts of many worldwide. Behind some of the cheerful looking smiles, there lies the pain of loneliness. Beneath the bright & jovial expressions, perhaps there’s grief, and the mourning of a recently deceased loved one who’s been called Home to glory. While the monies are being spent, and the advertisements of sales, gifts, Santa Claus, elves, reindeer and snowmen, take over the television, and our relatives prepare to join us for one or two of their multiple meals, some accompanied by multiple holiday drinks, as the majority of us tend to overlook the actual reason for the season, and exactly what it is that we’re celebrating… Personally, I wanted to take this opportunity to dissect the phrase, “Merry Christmas.” Of course I’ll begin where it makes the most sense to, which is In the beginning… A quick look at the word, “merry.”

Merry: (adj.) laugh·ing

1.  that laughs or is given to laughter: a laughing child.
2.  uttering sounds like human laughter, as some birds.
3.  suggesting laughter by brightness, color, sound,
4.  laughable
            
It seems pretty clear to me that to be “merry,” is to be joyous. Now for the second, “Christmas,” I’m going to split that one up… “Christ.”

Christ: (noun)

1.      Jesus of Nazareth, held by Christians to be the fulfillment of prophecies in the Old Testament regarding the eventual coming of a Messiah.
2.      the Messiah prophesied in the Old Testament (used chiefly in versions of the New Testament).
3.      someone regarded as similar to Jesus of Nazareth.

Well… There we have it, The “Christ” in Christmas is intended for us to reflect upon the birth of Jesus Christ, the Messiah, the Son of God, the savior of the believing Christians of the world. Per studying the Bible, we see nothing regarding pine trees, candy canes, reindeer, sleighs, a “Santa Claus,” people exchanging gifts with one another, but definitely bearing gifts to Him, as an infant.
And the last portion, “mas.” Now we have no American/English definition of this, yet we do have a definition in Spanish…

- mas: mercy ≈ la misericordia (noun) compasión

1.      to have mercy on somebody
2.      to beg for mercy 
3.      to be at the mercy of 


Is it really that ironic that “mas,” in Spanish, means mercy in English? The phrase that we use so often in saying, “Merry Christmas,” is actually a directive for us to be filled with joy & laughter for Christ’s mercy, rather God’s mercy upon us for giving His Son to bear the cross for our sins, before we were even formed in our mother’s womb… We serve a Great and Mighty God, and He’s full of love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, and “much” more… This year, in the midst of all the hustle and bustle, the shopping, cooking, eating & drinking, take just a moment to thank God for the birth of our risen savior, Jesus Christ, the “real reason” for the season... Have A Very Blessed and Merry Christmas


Wednesday, December 11, 2013

The Birth of Our Saviour: My Christmas Story...

Can you imagine a young woman being visited by an angel, receiving a message from God, that she'd give birth to the savior, to the Messiah, to the Son of God...

Imagine the look upon her face, for she'd never known a man, had never... intertwined here flesh with one. Yet I could see the mixed tears of fear and joy rolling down her cheeks, for she simply believed. She knew that this task, this charge, this blessing, this gift... came directly from the mouth of God... But hold up...

Envision the expression on the face, and the reaction of her beau, her boyfriend, her man, her fiancee Joseph. Though he'd had an experience foretelling him too, picture him when she told him, "I'm with child."... We've read the text, we know that he secretly planned to follow the customary action of writing her a letter of divorcement. Yet the scripture doesn't make it clear what his "reaction" was, if his emotions overwhelmed him and his speech became as he'd "lost his religion," or whether he simply said, "I thought you were a virgin. You lied to me." You see, Joseph knew where he'd "been," and where he "hadn't been."... He didn't need to ask anyone else, didn't need to see a doctor, and didn't need to wait until the birth of the child for a test result that states, "You are NOT the father." No, no, no no, no...

See, God knew that He was dealing with a man that knew Him. He knew that like Jesus, Joseph would never leave, nor forsake, never abandon Mary in her... condition. He knew that Joseph was a man of Faith, that would trust Him. So when trouble came, when he & Mary became as a laughing stock, as outcasts, when they had to flee, he stayed right there by her side. He didn't give up, nor give in when there was no room at the inn, or that inn... or that inn. He was there to provide for her as much as he could, not only because he loved her, but also that he trusted God to provide the rest. After all it is written, "If any man provide not for his own, specially those of his own house, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel." We need more "men" of faith like Joseph. Single mothers, I feel your pain, fellas man up and take care of your kids... and hers too. The old folks used to say, "If you want the milk, you gotta take the cow too." (or something like that, lol...)

This world, which we are in, but not of, celebrates this day by bearing/exchanging gifts to one another, which there's nothing wrong in that, for it's better to give than to receive. Yet the bulk of credit, glory, honor and expectation all go to the fat guy in the red & white suit, as opposed to he whom shed his blood where it is due. There's a fireplace with a chimney at my mother's house, yet I never expected to hear deer on the roof, neither anyone to come down the chimney, (especially in the hood,) for I was told at an early age, "There ain't no Santa, there ain't no Claus, there ain't nobody but ya mo' and ya paw." The greatest gift of all was given to the world thousands of years ago, that through our belief in him, the world may obtain grace, mercy, justification, and most importantly salvation leading to everlasting life. The day he was born, like his return no man knows the day, nor the hour, but Tuesday, we'll celebrate the birth of our Savior. There's no harm in saying, "Merry Christmas." But if you haven't done so, please take a moment and say, "Happy Birthday Jesus." I love y'all... Happy Holidays To You & Yours!!!


Friday, November 29, 2013

SEX, LOVE and LUST

"Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." - 1 Corinthians 7:1-5

Let's not be coy, choosing various subjects to be too "taboo" to be addressed, by Christians, ministers, pastors, etc. After all, God told Adam and Eve to, "be fruitful and multiply," to subdue the earth, having dominion over it. Today, so much television, music, movies, videos, and so-called "romance novels," are geared toward appealing to our sexual appetites it's ridiculous. It provokes and promotes lust, which leads to the conception of sin, which in turn leads to death. Of course sexual intimacy feels good and pleases the body, especially when both parties know what they're doing and how to do it right. But since the beginning, sex been established to be shared ONLY between a husband and wife, a male and female husband and wife, for there is no other way that same-sex individuals can multiply. Nevertheless, I'll make this clear... We should respect ourselves, one another, and most importantly God, enough to abide in His way, and wait until we're wed one to another before we lie together. Sex is also an expression of love, yet there's a decency and order, (marriage,) that should be installed first. It shouldn't be, "If you love me, then do....... for me." But rather, "Since I love God, and since I love you, "I'll wait until we're married, and fight my flesh until then."... That's what Real Love is, KEEPING GOD FIRST. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." - Heb. 13:4

WALK IN LOVE - "Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them." - Ephesians 5:1-7



"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." - Hebrews 13:4 (NKJV)

Here's more truth to make you free... GOD HONORS MARRIAGE... NOT SHACKING, SEXING & PROMISCUOUSLY PLAYING... AND DON'T LISTEN TO THOSE WHO WOULD RATIONALIZE IT BY SAYING, "ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE, WE ALREADY MARRIED CUZ WE HAD SEX..." TELL THAT FOOL THAT'S TRYING TO FOOL YOU, THAT IS NOT SCRIPTURE, BUT A BOLD-FACED LIE... EACH AND EVERY TIME, THE ORDER IS "... AND HE "KNEW' (CONSUMMATED/SLEPT/HAD SEX WITH) HIS WIFE"... NOT HIS/HER "BOO THING." THEY WERE MARRIED FIRST!... IF THAT WERE THE CASE, JESUS WOULD HAVE NO REASON TO SAY, "FOR THIS CAUSE, MOSES COMMANDED YOU TO GIVE HER A WRITING OF DIVORCE..." GET IT RIGHT... NO... I'M NOT A VIRGIN MYSELF, AND I TRUTHFULLY WISH I STILL WERE, BUT SINCE I KNOW BETTER, I AIM TO DO BETTER. FOR IT IS WRITTEN, "HE THAT KNOWS BETTER AND DOES IT NOT IS SIN."... DO IT THE RIGHT WAY, GOD'S WAY, RESPECT HIM & RESPECT YOURSELF. PUT A RING ON IT FIRST.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Too Much Love...

I thought, "Perhaps, I really don't know what love is... Perhaps my exes were right..."

Maybe I was wrong to give my all, as best I could do, to be open, honest, trusting and giving...

Perhaps giving my last, when I was in need, sacrificing, neglecting mine own personal needs...

At times not that much, though more than affordable, twas a mistake maybe I shouldn't have cared...

But I Loved, and still Love with the Love of the Lord, from my heart and it's pure just as His...

It is written, "No greater love hath a man than this, that he would lay down his life for a friend." As for me, I retained agape Love for each one, and that meant I'd give mine for them.

Yet I remained faithful, I wrote wedding plans, and I purchased rings to wed two out of three... Yet on two of their parts, they felt they should stray, yet the one who forgave them was me.

Their alleged "love" was attached to the tangible things and the sex, the last admitted that her's in fact was... At least five years of my life invested in each, my plan was simply to Love...

To be that provider, that husband and father, that God first formed man to be... Yes I made mistakes, yet my heart never changed, in the end I once cried, "Woe is me..."

Never again, for the next shall remain my wife until death us do part... She'll truly give, just as I will, one another God's Love from our hearts...

I thought, "I've got too much Love in me, not to be shared, for I indeed know what True Love is..."

Monday, November 18, 2013

Tired of Being Alone...

I know too many beautiful, good-hearted women that have been & are being taken advantage of, some unknowingly, simply because they're tired of being alone, some thought they "knew game" when they see/saw it, & still got hoodwinked, and chose to settle for less. I know some males that are truly good-hearted, hardworking men that have been, or are being taken advantage of as well. Same reason... Bad choices, settling for less than what's blessed. Personally, I'm tired of seeing my friends & even some strangers go through meaningless relationship after relationship being lied to, cheated on. hurt, misused and abused, all because they're "in love" with their mates, wand their mates only "have love," for them. We love wholeheartedly, always considering what we can do for them, whereas they're always wondering for the same thing... what we can do for them, give to them, buy for them, etc. And some spend even a little money on us, but no "real," "quality" time, time with God, together... Love cannot be bought.... period. Over time, after much hurt and pain, I learned to love God, to seek Him first, and though I've met some beautiful people. I've had great disappointments, (at times being wrong, hearing my voice over God's,) and sometimes not even able to tell some that God had made it clear to me, that we weren't to be together, because I didn't want to hurt their feelings, but still our friendship remains... Nevertheless, I made up in my mind to stop looking, to be content while single in Him, to KEEP God first, to KEEP my confidence in Him, not to move forward in that which He hasn't approved in my heart & spirit, but to wait on Him, expressing my heart's desire, but awaiting Him to fulfill it, as he prepares she and I both for His purposes in the meanwhile... To my friends, if you're not on One accord in Spirit with the one you're with. Take a step back, reflect on what God says, if they don't honor His Word & wait, even to stop engaging in sex with one another, until you're wed, placing His Word and walking in the spirit ABOVE the flesh, then let it go, TRUST GOD... Sometimes we have to abandon our dreams that we may see His vision clearly... Wait on the Lord... Be blessed.


Sunday, November 17, 2013

A Little Study, A Little Wisdom: Why the Man Should Not Be Alone...

"Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them." - Gen. 1:26-27 (NKJV)... Now pay close attention to this...

"Say unto WISDOM, Thou art my SISTER; and call UNDERSTANDING thy KINSWOMAN: That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words." - Proverbs 7:4-5 (KJV)... "My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But LET PATIENCE HAVE HER perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing." - James 1:2-4 (KJV)

Follow me on this... When God first created man & woman, prior to the formation of Adam, and the forming of Eve from his rib in the Garden of Eden, both the male and female were spirits, made in the image and likeness of the Godhead (the Father, Son & Holy Spirit,) hence the comment, "let "us" make man in "our" image." The writer of Proverbs once penned, "Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding. Exalt HER, and SHE will promote you; SHE will bring you honor, when you embrace HER. SHE will place on your head an ornament of grace; A crown of glory SHE will deliver to you." - Prov. 4:7-9 (NKJV)... We men are known for being stubborn hard-headed, headstrong, etc. Yet since the beginning, it is written, "And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” - Gen. 2:18 (NKJV)... I find no irony in the fact that King Solomon only asked God for wisdom and wound up with over 700 concubines, when the "spirits" of wisdom, understanding and patience ARE in fact female spirits. This may even bear some vital significance on boys/men being closer to our mothers than our fathers, not because they're our primary nurturers, but simply because the keys to obtaining peace are embedded in them. I've come to believe that this is why "some of us" search for and desire a virtuous wife so fervently. What we require is wisdom, understanding, and by God you women are the ones whom patiently bear with us... The peace that surpasses ALL understanding in the matter of love, marriage and relationships can ONLY be obtained through the method in which God set forth in the beginning, with a man and his wife, a man and a woman, decently, and in order, just as it is written. If you don't like it, take it up with God, He said it. So if you really love Him, obey Him and let Him deliver you... "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." - Gen. 2:24 (NKJV)

"Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth." - 2 Tim. 2:15 (KJV)


Saturday, November 9, 2013

When It Hurts To Love...

"As a woman with child is in pain and cries out in her pangs, when she draws near the time of her delivery, so have we been in Your sight, O Lord." - Isaiah 26:17 (NKJV)

LOVE... It's much more than a simple word, and much more than an action. It's the ultimate reason God chose to send His Son to earth, to bear the cross for the sins of, and to redeem His most precious creation... Man.

LOVE is the very foundation of Christianity... It is written, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes on Him should not perish,but shall have everlasting life." - John 3:16

LOVE is the greatest gift God could have ever given us, for by love, we may obtain everlasting life, we may be One with Him in Spirit, and live out all eternity with our Father in Heaven.

LOVE can also be the heaviest cross one carries, concerning our heartfelt feelings and emotions for one another... When this adverse effect of love takes place, it's in the midst of our compassion, positive hopes and desires for one another, that we often endure the most pain... We express a pure, unconditional, forgiving, agape love, that is often not recompensed, not embraced, and seldom returned by whom we express or render it to. We instead become the person who's watched, taken advantage of, mistrusted, and left with bearing a heart full of love that seems to lie dormant, unwittingly rejected by the objects of our affection... I ask that you be not dismayed... "

LOVE is a many splendored thing," as the saying goes. The Apostle Paul once penned that, "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." -1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NLT)

I urge that we continue to love... However, we must not continue to allow our hearts to be toyed with, neither place ourselves in unwanted, poor relationships for the sake of not being alone... God knows, and He cares. It hurts to let go of the one's we love... Yet after a while, because it also takes time, we realize that it's even more painful to hold onto hopelessness.

Consider Jesus... He knew no sin, did no wrong, He simply loved, yet He painfully endured rejection, lies, being spat upon, beaten, battered and bruised... because He loved us... SOMETIMES, IT HURTS TO LOVE.

"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." - Revelation 21:4 ... Love hurts. Just ask Jesus.

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

"Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think." - La Bruyere

"Life is a burden for the non-believer, and a gift for the saved." - Erron R. Johnson

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Indigo Blues

There's a midnight blue with a violet hue, a darkening comfort, that's majestically cool...

Whomever thought that the blues could have a positive view? An essence of royalty in the undertones it exudes...

A work of art in it's own right, created by the King, carefully composed, fit for a Queen...

A color of intuition, perception, and higher mind, a personality of compassion, serving to mankind...

A virtuous wife, for what man can find? The answer is simply before these eyes of mine...

It's said that a man knows his wife when he sees her. Upon the revelation, his aim is to please her...

She'll see what he sees, by God they shall know, they'll make their covenant as He has, in the clouds with the bow...

That he may Love her, honor her, that she be cherished and adored, that he may share with her the agape Love of the Lord...

There's no hint of disrespect, only peace and joy untold, a husband and helpmeet, to have and to hold...

I know you... So I welcome these Indigo Blues...

Monday, October 14, 2013

The Awakening

I awoke to behold natural beauty in a state of rest. Your eyes closed, you're asleep, taking sweet, simple breaths.

I envisioned this day, yet never imagined it would come. That you and I, would be us, we twain would be one.

All that I have is yours, within and without, for I trust you undoubtedly with holding my heart.

Not wanting to startle you, I draw nearer to hold you. My arm wrapped around you,  I'm grateful that I've found you.

Of course you could model Victoria's Secret, yet you represent Virtuous Women, unashamed of God's gifts.

Your curves discourage the enemy's advances. Our prayers cover one another, we're taking no chances.

This love that we share is from Heaven above, we're equally yoked, were on one accord.

You're all that I've prayed for, and more than I've missed. It's time I awake you, embrace you with a kiss...

But wait... It was all a dream, for I woke up alone... This time. - Erron R. Johnson

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Lesson for Life: Let God Choose for You

Lesson for Life: LET GOD CHOOSE FOR YOU

"And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper comparable to him.... And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place. Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. And Adam said: “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed." - Genesis 2:18, 20-25

This one hits home for me... Not only had I heard from God, but I'd later been told by prophecy, that my ex would be my wife. However, in spite of our personal hopes, dreams & visions, and although God may give us a Word, concerning various things, it's HIGHLY possible, and VERY easy for us to walk out of His will, thus altering the path of our lives. In my case, a woman that I'd met at a church, once a very loving individual, over time became a church-going, hearer, yet not a doer of the Word, she refused to pray for us as a couple, became demeaning, degrading and hard-hearted toward me, lover of material things, disputer & rejector of the Word, literally stating, "I don't care what God say, I'mma do what I wanna do, and say what I wanna say." And that was AFTER He'd spake to my spirit, reaffirming & confirming multiple times that we were unequally yoked, and I was still trying to "make it work," knowing she "was" a better person. Til' this day, she remains an aspiring author, always advising on family & relationships, yet currently seeing a married man, smh... That's truly being a hypocrite. But because she changed, His plan & His will changed. In short, though our dreams/visions, and even God's may remain the same, the other party HAS TO BE willing, and obedient to Him. Although they may at heart, be believers in Christ, and know the Word, keep in mind that God is no respecter of persons, and that above all, He loves His children, and says, it is better that one hang a millstone around his neck, and be cast into the sea, than to hurt one of His little ones. In short, He doesn't want us with anyone that doesn't treat us right, and love us wholeheartedly... We must abandon our fleshly desires and seek His guidance, seek His peace, and seek His will. Ignore the outside, look inwardly, and listen to His voice. Let God make the choice for us, and follow His instructions.




Friday, October 11, 2013

"After you have suffered a little while, He will restore..."

Some struggle is inevitable... No one is promised a life which is free from pain, sorrow or grief. It does not mean that anyone walks through these things alone. Have faith and know that all suffering is temporary.

"In the same way, you younger men must accept the authority of the elders. And all of you, serve each other in humility, for “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.” So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you are. In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, He will restore, support, and strengthen you, and He will place you on a firm foundation. All power to Him forever! Amen." - 1 Peter 5:8-11 (NLT)


Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Just Thinking...

Just thinking... I'm nowhere near, nor in this world will I ever be perfect. I have flaws, faults, and have erred many times. I may not be the smartest, wisest, most talented, nor the most handsome man ever to walk the earth, and I've definitely made some major mistakes. But by the grace of God, I'm still here, still living, learning, and growing in faith and knowledge of the Word, the Good News of the Gospel of Christ each day. Though I've made many wrong choices/decisions in my life, I can say that from a youth, I made the Right choice, in choosing Christ as my Lord and savior, choosing to believe God's Word, and in spite of my rebellion in my adolescence and adulthood, I chose the savior that would restore me unto Him, forgiving me for my sins, and using me as a willing vessel to proclaim the Gospel. And He can do the same for you if you're willing... On that note, I can surely say without a shadow of a doubt, if I know nothing else, I know Jesus. And I know love...

"Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. And God has given us his Spirit as proof that we live in him and he in us. Furthermore, we have seen with our own eyes and now testify that the Father sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. All who confess that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God. We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. We love each other because he loved us first. If someone says, “I love God,” but hates a Christian brother or sister, that person is a liar; for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see? And he has given us this command: Those who love God must also love their Christian brothers and sisters." - 1 John 4:7-21 (NLT)




Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Just Like You...

"Yes, you who trust him recognize the honor God has given him. But for those who reject him, “The stone that the builders rejected has now become the cornerstone.” And, “He is the stone that makes people stumble, the rock that makes them fall.” They stumble because they do not obey God’s word, and so they meet the fate that was planned for them. But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests,  a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light. “Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people. Once you received no mercy; now you have received God’s mercy.” - 1 Peter 2:7-9 (NLT)

To everyone who's ever been told, "You're just like (whomever)..." By the grace of God, I'm here to tell you that according to scripture, that's clearly not the case. YOU are more than a conqueror. YOU are a unique individual.  YOU are fearfully and wonderfully made. YOU are the head, and NOT the tail. YOU are above and NOT beneath. YOU are the the salt of the earth. YOU are blessed and Highly favored. Truthfully... YOU are just like YOU.


Sunday, October 6, 2013

The Message or the Messenger... Which Do You Hear?

"All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." - 2 Timothy 3:16-17

Amazingly, yet not surprisingly, it's something how some believers, Christians, "church people," become offended by, or biased against the written Word, the scripture. Let me be clear, I'm not referring to the the Pastor's sermon as a whole, his commentary, neither his points made in delivering his message, but simply to the scripture alone. I've noticed people get up and walk out church at any given time when certain scriptures are read. Namely those which refer to adultery, tithing/giving, the love of money, and nowadays especially sexual immorality/inordinate affection,, (homosexuality/lesbianism,) being an abomination unto God. Now it's one thing if the minister/speaker just outright condemns everybody to hell every week of his own volition, and quite another to preach the written Word, the Truth of the Gospel, the Good News of Salvation, that we've all sinned and come short of the glory of God, yet there is hope. That "The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way. THOUGH HE FALL, HE SHALL NOT BE UTTERLY CAST DOWN; For the Lord upholds him with His hand." That once we're saved and put on Christ, we're new creatures, that we're given a clean slate every day, "for the Lord's tender mercies are new every morning," That "there is no temptation that has overtaken you... that God has not already provided a way of escape." That there's forgiveness, there's mercy, there's grace, that "there is now therefore NO CONDEMNATION such as to THOSE WHO ARE IN CHRIST JESUS, WHO WALK NOT AFTER THE FLESH, BUT AFTER THE SPIRIT."... The God's honest truth, according to scripture, is that WE MUST RESIST the devil. WE MUST bring the flesh under subjection. WE CANNOT continue to dwell, live & daily wallow in blatant sin, clearly doing the opposite of what the Word says, and keep asking God to forgive us everyday. It's written that the people of Sodom & Gomorrah did MANY wicked things aside from same-sex relations & sex with animals, and for that cause God gave them over to a reprobate (sinful, Godless,) mind, and His Word hasn't changed. Just as Jesus Christ, whom is the Word of God, is the same today, yesterday, and forevermore." Is it that we love the things we do more than we love God, because that's what it seems to say to Him. It's like a person saying, "God, I don't care what your Word says, I ain't ready to live right, I ain't ready to submit to you. I don't want your love, peace, joy and abundant overflow of blessings for being obedient. So I'm gonna do what I wanna do, & I'll holla at You later. I love me more than I love You."... Now that my friends is pretty much a bullet train to hell, lest we repent & change our ways. The bottom line is that WE MUST CHANGE, and do our best to live & walk
Right, loving God... But what are you listening to that offends you?... The messenger, or the Message? Jesus said, "If you love Me, keep my commandments." He also said the following...

"Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter. On judgment day many will say to me, ‘Lord! Lord! We prophesied in your name and cast out demons in your name and performed many miracles in your name.’ But I will reply, ‘I never knew you. Get away from me, you who break God’s laws.’" - Matt. 7:21-23 (NLT)... I pray we all make the Right choice.


Saturday, October 5, 2013

To My "Good Thing;" My Helpmeet...

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church." - Eph. 5:25... "Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them." - Col. 3:19

I can't promise things will be perfect. neither can I promise you that each & every day, or every moment that we're together will be joyful, peaceful, and just as nice and quaint as if it were in a movie or soap opera. For in this world, life is unscripted, and in relationships, there are bound to eventually be arguments, (which I attempt to avoid,) and disagreements. Yet I'm aware it's impossible for us to agree on everything, for we're individuals, with varying points of view. Yet i can promise you that I'll never lay a hand on you in attempt to hurt or harm you.

I can't promise that won't look at another woman, thinking she may be attractive, because I'm a man, I'm not gay, and I have eyes. But I can promise you that I won't stare, for in my heart, mind and soul, you're my blessing from God, and that makes you the most beautiful woman in the world.

I can't promise that I can get everything you want, need & desire, at the time, or moment you want, need or desire it. Yet I'm willing to work hard to provide for the both us, and it's not only my duty, but my pleasure to place your needs before my own, and our child's/children's needs before both our own, including any and all children you possibly may have prior to us being together. I promise to bring them up in the way that they should go, in the fear, admonition and knowledge of the Lord.

I can promise you that like Jesus, I will never leave you nor forsake you. I'll always be that unbiased, listening ear, comforting arm and shoulder to cry on. I'm not a whorish, neither adulterous man, so I can promise you that I'll never cheat on you, and I won't find you unattractive if you gain a little, or a lot of weight, time brings about changes. I can promise you that I'll ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST in all of our relationships, family, marriage and otherwise. I promise that I'll always be truthful, open and honest with you, for communication is vital, although there are times that the truth may hurt deeply, I expect you to be that same way with me.

There's much more, for just as many articles, books, and magazines, and novels there are on love, relationships and romance, I could go on and on, but all I'm saying is that I promise to love you the way God intended me to love you, His Book being the most important of all... I promise to love you, more than my own body, just as Christ loves the church.


Friday, October 4, 2013

Pride & Humility

Thinking... Some people don't have what they want, because they ask/demand God to supply what they feel they deserve... Unfortunately, they fail to realize that He's already gracefully & mercifully blessed them with more than what they need... It is written, "Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall. Better to live humbly with the poor than to share plunder with the proud. Those who listen to instruction will prosper; those who trust the Lord will be joyful." - Proverbs 16:18-20 (NLT)

"In the same way, you younger men must accept the authority of the elders. And all of you, serve each other in humility, for “God opposes the proud but favors the humble.” So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you. Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you are. In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation. All power to him forever! Amen." - 1 Peter 5:5-11 (NLT)

Monday, September 30, 2013

A Solid Foundation

First & foremost, the most important thing is our faith. Again, if one doesn't care for your soul, they're not your soulmate, and they definitely don't have a clue what love is... KEEPING God first promotes loving, helping, (NOT enabling, for that's being a crutch,) but uplifting,  encouraging & supporting one another in all things positive, being open & honest, REMAINING faithful, speaking the truth in love, even if it may hurt, for it will always result in healing. Someone who truly loves you will give their last, and ultimately give their lives that you may live. "For greater love has no man than this, that he would lay down his life for his friends." Yet without God being the the solid foundation, on which our relationships are built, they're bound to fall... Hard.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Women... REAL Men NEED Your Help: Come Out of Your Shell

"Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.... And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam; and while he slept, He took one of his ribs or a part of his side and closed up the [place with] flesh. And the rib or part of his side which the Lord God had taken from the man He built up and made into a woman, and He brought her to the man." - Genesis 2:18, 21-22 (AMP)

Allow me to speak on behalf of the believing, faith-filled, saved, God-fearing Christian men, the ONLY REAL men. We're the good men that many have been deemed hard to find. Perhaps we can't be found, because we're supposed to be led to you without your looking, for whoso finds a wife, finds a good thing... It's not a wonder many fall for the fools, the users and abusers whom take you for granted, those whom appeal to your appetites & senses, yet don't have the sense to realize you're sensual...

We're men... We're strong... We work. We love. We provide. We're the one's that are there with a listening ear, our shoulders for you to cry on, yet we also cry... We don't disclose much, for we feel as if what we have on our minds, what weighs heavy upon our hearts, is too much for you to bear. Therefore we attempt to understand your passions and your pains, in hopes to find ways to eliminate our troubling cares...

We see the strength in you... We know you're stronger than we are, for there's no way in hell our bodies could bear the discomfort of ovulation, enduring menstruation, every 28 days for 3-5 days at a time, becoming sublime in an attempt aiming to conceive, to be a blessing to us, carry and deliver our seed... It hurts us to know you bleed...

It's not a lie but the complete truth, that we were given the charge to be fruitful and multiply. To diligently dedicate ourselves to dominate in the dominion which Adam let fall before his eyes. We REAL men don't perceive Eve as the fall guy... For we studied to show ourselves approved, reading the scripture and realizing that Adam "was with her," when she was deceived, yet he remained silent, so we place the blame all on that fool...

Nevertheless, WE NEED YOU... The reason that God formed you is to be our helpmeet, to assist... To be that "rib," supporting and protecting our internal intricacies, as well as our extremities. To "help" us meet both our needs, fulfill our purposes and destinies, without questioning God's perplexities, directing us to abide in, trust and become complete in Him...

NOT so that either of us would revert to the errors and sins of Sodom and Gomorrah... Abandoning the ability to procreate or multiply as God intended, by becoming deceived as if Adam & Eve were in fact Adam & Steve, or Eve & Ellen... Rebelling living low & horribly, acquiring, adopting, accepting, voluntarily choosing to be perceived as the Word states, "an abomination unto God..." NO... It would be rather pleasing to both of us that we share with you the rod...... of correction...

Any discretion would be rendered indiscreet, truthfully on another plane, completely opposite from infidelity, lust and adultery... Though the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak, there's no need to sneak, creep, side-eyed peek trying to get a piece, when we can savagely wreak havoc not only between, but atop or without, we could scream and shout until we rip the sheets... For it is written, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled..." between a husband... And his helpmeet...

Women, come out of your shell... We're waiting for you.

Monday, September 23, 2013

Abuse: Playing the Victim

Abuse... Verbal, emotional, mental, physical, spiritual. No matter the type, there are varying, progressive degrees of abuse, for it only gets worse. When the abuser is no longer a part of our lives, sometimes it leaves very deep, and traumatic emotional scars. We not only live in fear that we'll be subjected to the same behavior in following relationships, but we might also exude the same abuse we experienced, on the person who's now chosen, and willing to love us the Right way.

In essence, we'll be often "playing the victim," all smiles, a seemingly healthy relationship, getting along in public bearing fake grins as big as Alive In Wonderland's Cheshire Cat, yet in the car, at home, behind closed doors, or rather when alone, we resort to degradation, demeaning & belittling the person we're with, because that's how we were "used to" being treated. Many times comparing the present person with the past assailant, using phrases such as, "You're just like..." When in all actuality, it's ourselves that have become "just like...." We carry the baggage, no... the luggage of our past relationships from one person to the next, proclaiming & reliving the things we went through, when we were actually being abused. So we "play the victim" in the public eye... Perhaps going so far as to intentionally starting arguments because we just "feel like" arguing, for the simplest reasons, becoming enraged to the point of physically attacking the person who's done us no wrong. Then, should they strike us in self-defense, should they not bow or lie down and take that mess, and fight back... Then we claim "we" were abused, or "We're" the victims... Yet sadly, somewhere along the way, we've lost the sight of what love really is. We may regularly attend church, yet have lost the closeness, the trust, the relationship, faith & belief of the power of God in our lives. And it's simply become an act of habit, a tradition, church becomes a routine, as we secede into a powerless cycle of religion.

We associate acts of kindness, and the material things that the ones whom truly loved us with all their hearts, possibly couldn't afford, yet still gave their last to us, with love. Meanwhile, the "love" we have becomes available for purchase, forsaking the fact that true love, the God-kind of agape love is priceless. So the "love" we think we have is truly lust, seeking the tangible, neglecting the precious, which is unseen by the eye, yet thrives in the heart, only using the next person for what they give to us, as many of them use us for what they can get from us.

Be aware...Greed, money, and sex are one hell of a dangerous combination to those that "could care less."... Honestly, the fact is that we're no longer victims, but have embodied the persona of the abuser, and sometimes defamed the character of a truly loving individual... Be careful, for pride not only comes before a fall, but what's hidden in darkness shall always be revealed by the Light. This Light, is the Light of the world, and His name is Jesus. Love Him.

Singles...

Singles... Though we may be believers, perhaps sharing the same hearts desire, share in our passions for the Gospel, be attracted to one another and much more, it still may not be in God's will that we in particular, become one flesh. Neither could it be in His timing... Oftentimes, our impatience takes precedence over God's clarity. Simply put, our faith is misplaced, guided by our thoughts & emotions, as opposed to being led by, and obediently following the voice and spirit of God. However, it is written, "Trust in the Lord with ALL your heart and lean NOT TO YOUR OWN understanding. In ALL your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."... I thank God for wisdom, understanding, the spirit of discernment, in addition to increasing and strengthening my patience, preparing and equipping me for His work, as I seek Him first in ALL things, awaiting Him, to fulfill the desires of my heart, in His timing, according to a His will. "My son get wisdom which is the principle thing. And with all your getting, get understanding."

Take heed... There's nothing profitable about being a wise fool.